[A life of mistakes followed by remembering two more of the same gives a man a different perspective. It's a good thing this wasn't about Wei Wuxian. God knows he wasn't praised often and such a tease actually would make him fumble a little.

He'll concede that matters of the heart were very, very complicated and that he didn't know all sides involved. But call it intuition, Wei Wuxian had the feeling that as sensitive as this situation was a man wouldn't let Jing Yuan carry him across the island and all but cuddle against him if sharing would invite disaster.]

What makes you so sure it will invite disaster? You won't know unless you take the chance. If you don't and you miss it, won't that be worse for your happiness and theirs if they wanted you to say something all along? You have been talking about their happiness this entire time.

You may not find them in the next life, Yuan'er.